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Anon Imperfect Mum
Update on going to have a melt down I'd taken the advice of the mums who commented and did what they said. It backfired on me completely. I txt all the brothers and sister to please come and help us sort the house out. The sister txt back and said okay but then rang me later while I was at the...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Don't know if it's so much of a question, I just need to get it all out. A few weeks ago I found out my partner had been cheating on me for 2 years. I'm shattered. Apart from a couple of msgs saying he's sorry and he doesn't know what's wrong with him to do that and that he's ruined his life, I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Update regarding my child making disclosure My child is getting counselling, I rang the counselling service and she was seen straight away. Two weeks after starting counselling there were other blades she had hidden. They have been removed and my child has not cut since. The counselling is a slow...
Anon Imperfect Mum
If one more person tells me I will miss pregnancy when its done and dusted, I may punch myself in the face. Dont get me wrong - my feelings towards pregnancy have no reflection on how I feel towards my baby as I feel the most outstanding love and protection for my child but its been a rough ride...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi IMs, please be sensitive in replys, I can't change the facts and am trying to find an alternative way to help my cousin Sorry this may be long. I met up with my cousin yesterday who has 2 young children. 1 that attends daycare 2 x a week and the nearly 1 yr old who's at home. She has a great...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My ex partner and i were not togeather when i found out i was pregnant. I was very clear that i thought some one else was in fact the father. My ex refused to acknowledge it. 2 years later i finally leave due to domestic voilence and under durress i put his name on baby birth certificate in the...
Anon Imperfect Mum
The hardent part of loving someone who has an acute mental illness....when you have been involved in each others lives for 8-10 years....even if not living together at stages due to the illness..... You become a feature of the illness. Particularly if it includes psychosis. Saying good morning can...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Got a phone call from the regional director of DHS today we know each other by name due to dealings 4 years ago and me dragging his arse through 5 levels of government and other agencies..... That was nice of him....he made sure it wasn't just an unannounced knock on the door. This household is...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi just came across this method. I am very tempted to try it. Has anyone tried it and did it help with processing traumatic memories? (Ongoing abuse. DV.) Also how much and would medicare cover this therapy? Hoping so. I am feeling positive.
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi sorry for long post not really sure what I'm asking!! Lately I've had In home help support, but every time the lady comes around she's always brings stuff about SIDS and makes me feel like I'm not a mother to my two boys, I can't handle confrontation with people and every time she is here...