Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
I hate the fact xmas brings out the worst in families. My parents want to always play big happy families at xmas time but reality is no one ever talks to anyone else. Myself and 2 brothers do everything we can to avoid each other at all costs. I have a family and 3 kids my brothers have long term...
Anon Imperfect Mum
This is probably going to cause a lot of different opinions but I'm curious as to how people can have the conscience to lie to their kids about Santa ? I feel like I want to get into the spirit of Christmas, it's my absolute favourite holiday but the thought of lying to my 6yo about Santa really...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi IM's... imperfect yes I am! In a few short weeks my little one is turning 6, naturally we are planning a party. My little one has chosen those from her class that she wanted to invite. Invites went out Monday... the trouble is there is one girl in her class (amongst others), who my little one...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have nobody to ask about this so I thought I would turn to the wise women of this group. I am a single Mum that went on a Cruise and and fell for one of the crew members. Got off the cruise thinking I would be able to forget about him. He is all I think about for weeks now. I thought I could...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I am crap at Saving money. I have plans and ideas and then get carried away doing things or other people or my kids. It's not that I don't know how it's purely a lack of self control. We are not rich, in fact just on the government defined poverty line but we do have a little over each week. My...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Tonight I witnessed my neighbors in a domestic violence incident. The bloke was apparently drunk and ended up pushing and shoving his partner against the wall yelling, screaming, holding her against the wall. She was doubled over hysterically crying. They are young. 20 or so. The mother of one of...
Anon Imperfect Mum
*possible trigger* You know you're not truely valued when your own mother would rather support and help your serial rapist brother, who sexually abused you as a child (which she knows about), than you. One of the many reasons I am completely fucked in the head. ? At what point do I tell her I'm...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Help.. Recently just got married to my soul mate, he is everything to me. But since we got married all I have craved is another baby.. I have a 9y/o to a different guy, was 18 when I had her. I have finally picked my career which is being a chef and recently started a new job. Am lost as what to do...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I would dearly love to sponsor a child. My thought is to arrange this prior to Xmas so I can place the details of the sponsored child under our Xmas tree as a gift to my children. I would prefer an organisation that gives you the details of the child so my children can put a face to the name and...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How do others balance time for your kids and one on one time with your partner plus time for yourself