Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi 😊, Sorry if this is a silly question but we have just put an offer in for our first home 😀 & just a little confused with our settlement date .... do we count weekends or just business days ? We have a 45 day settlement , 7 building & pest & 14 day finance , contract was signed on the...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Has Covid/lockdown/3rd lockdown caused you to feel like changing your life? I recently had a massive meltdown/breakdown following the 3rd lockdown in Vic. Even though it was only 5 days it was like the final straw. It’s the suddenness of the lockdowns and rules changes that are breaking me mentally...
Anon Imperfect Mum
SID - Autistic, depression/anxiety/cptsd/dysthymia (possibly others) Tw - self harm (cutting) . . . . . . . . . . Lately my son has been asking about things that lead into my history of self harming (in particular cutting). Usually I’m pretty happy to talk about whatever, whenever... but this one I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My son is 10 - grade 5 (11in 4 months). He goes to his dad's every second weekend where he has a step sister who is 9 grade 4. I check his iPad every few days (which I believe is my perogitive as a parent until the time he his old enough to understand the responsibility of having a device) and came...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hello everyone, I’m just wondering if anyone has experience with buying a housing commission house in Qld? I have been looking into it and my family has lived in that house for 26 years, I would like to purchase it but I have a special needs son to think about I’m not sure what the rules are in...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi Ladies, I don’t know where to start with this but have any of you ladies been to trial for domestic violence? I’m the aggrieved and my sons father is pleading not guilty. The police have photos of damage done to my house and my neck from where he strangled me 4 times that night. I have given my...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi IMs, Please please be gentle with me and respectful. I've just found out my 13 year old daughter was raped last month when she snuck out of our house in the middle of the night with another girl and I have absolutely no idea what to do about it. She's always been pretty well behaved as far as...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi mums, when i came to Australia from a third world country I started studying English, a few computer courses, Admin course, and the last one I did was AIN, but as I was finishing this course I got pregnant and didn't have the opportunity to work as I became a full time mum. We dont have any...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I’m a 36 year old single mum. My daughter is eleven years old and has intellectual disabilities that I just found out is my fault because I have had an iron deficiency for years going undiagnosed including while I was pregnant with her. I just got diagnosed a week ago. My ex and baby daddy has her...
Anon Imperfect Mum
You feel what you feel, It may seem a dream but it's real. You focus on your family and your life, You do all you do to be the perfect mother and wife. When the motions of being young have faded, All alone you sit, lost and jaded. You don't fit that circle, oval or square. Actually thinking of it,...