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Anon Imperfect Mum
Im just going to dive straight in and sorry for the long read. A couple months back my partner and I was standing out the front on our veranda listening to an argument that we could see down the road that involved my in laws with my father in law being very sick (they only live couple houses down...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have 2 lovely kids, boy aged 12 and girl aged 7. When my son was 3 I lost a baby girl 20 weeks into the pregnancy. It was an absolute terrible, harrowing time. Fast forward to now and my curious daughter found the memory box for this little girl. I was not ready for this, and burst into tears at...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My ex has had an on and off girlfriend for over a year now.. they fight in front of our child and then he tells our child she won’t see that person again.. and then a week or 2 later it’s back on. Our child gets very upset every time this happens and I don’t believe it’s fair. Am I able to say I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I am a mum of adult children. I have been asked by a very dear friend with a primary school aged child if I would consider being the child's guardian should anything ever happen to her (a godmother of sorts). My friend is in a long term defacto relationship with a man who has adult children from...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My 10 year old son struggles socially at school but mostly at lunchtimes. He completely loses control when conflict arises, situations where they are all rough playing, and especially if he’s teased (and he could be teasing too!). He says it’s easier not to have friends or play because of this. He...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have a very nervous 8 year old son. He doesn’t like to shower without someone present or sleep without a lot of reassurance. We have a night light, music or meditation and check on him regularly. He says he’s scared of his nightmares. Occasionally he has a bad dream but daily he is petrified of...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hey 👋 I’ll preface this with I can’t just go to the doctor and have an assessment done unless I’m 100 percent across it because his father and I are separated and the judgment and such I’ll receive from family members in regards to suspecting ADHD will be intense as half of them don’t believe in it...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Advice please. No idea how to deal with this. Stepchild and my son both 13 recently purchased motorbikes. My son worked and saved and paid for all himself. Stepsons father paid for his. Yesterday sons bike wouldn’t go so couldn’t use it. Stepson said to my son “dad said to watch you with my fuel...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Mine and my partner's relationship is deteriating due to me basically being a cleaner and nanny to him and I'm only hanging on because of my step daughter I do absolutely everything for his child as well as my own whether that being bathing, cleaning, potty training etc he never does anything...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I need advice. How you ladies handle when you've been in a relationship for 5 years have stepkids but the girls don't respect me they are almost 13 and 10. They treat me like I'm crap. I'm at my witends and my partner doesnt seem to have my back at all