Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
Just wondering if anyone else has been in this situation or similar. I will be getting professional advice (waiting on an appointment). I have a 4 year old son. His dad is in and out of his life. He doesn't go for regular visits nor sleeps at his dad's (his dad's choice not mine). My son is a...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I left my abusive partner last year after years of torment. After seeking counselling and he refused and I really decided I could do no more and left. At first I was so keen to keep the peace I let him have 50/50 custody. But now the control issues are reappearing and I have genuine concerns for...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Is financial stress a reasonable reason to break up or just kind of kicking him while he's down? His job is stable but he's always been paid so little and working for family they've backed him into a corner. Note: me working would cost my wage per week in childcare. I also work casually at home...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I hate my partner.... i haven't been feeling anything for him for quite some time and we fight daily. Im trying to move out for our daughters sake... i do not want her growing up like this, she deserves better. 2 nights ago she rolled off the bed (I know i shouldn't co-sleep) and before she had...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Apologies in advance, this might be a bit long. As a bit of background, I am a military wife and my husband and I have one child (boy, almost 7). My husband recently moved states due to a military posting and I chose to stay put for a number of reasons, my job, child going into year 1 at school,...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I see a psychologist but she hasn't said anything. I have always had problems with depression and now that im a mum of a 3 month old its to much. I've been single since i was 13 weeks pregnant due to DV. He wanted me to have an abortion but i refused so he became physical and i know deep down it...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Sisters, When does PND stop being PND and just become depression? I'm sorry for the essay but I need to vent and.. I don't know - I need something. A little background - I was unable to breastfeed my LO and so was expressing. I was wearing myself out, especially with the pressure to get on with...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My ex partner, has become an alcoholic in the last 5 years. We split 12 years ago, and he has not worked in that time. He owns his own house (inherited), and has never paid child support. When I realised how bad his drinking was in mid 2013, I stopped his child minding duties (after school while I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Well......... Where do I start. What do I actually say. I posted something the other day. I was very overwhelmed at the time. I DID NOT write in to get "PITY" ("toot toot all aboard the pity train" ) nor did I write in for people to judge why contraceptive didn't work three times over. YES I BLOODY...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I need help :'( are there any support groups for carers/partners living with someone that has depression/anxiety im at breaking point im so lost! Also anyone know of any good psychologist or similar that do over the phone or Skype I mean really really good we are in a remote town and feel like no...