the mum everyone doesn't want to be like :)
Hello IM's just wanted to share a little story for all the other mums that everyone hates :) my parenting style seems to be the 'I would never do that' style... I have two boys, no I'm not going to try for a girl, I formula feed, my kids have never slept in my bed...they haven't even slept in my room! Straight to the cot for those little bubbas! I took them to two 3rd world countries, I work outside the home, the house is fucking messy, not dirty, just messy, I feed them packet food sometimes, I don't have a nappy bag...everything fits under the pram god damm it! And I sit there in play groups or around family where they talk about how they 'would never' do the stuff I have done! Lol my kids are awesome, happy and love life! And never have I felt like a bad mum! So if your like me... As long as our kids are fine so are you xx
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Haha, I do have a nappy bag and my little one has never been to a third world country but other than that, I'm with you! There's nothing wrong with you at all and like you say, your little ones are happy and healthy so you're not doing too bad!!!
Hoooray! It's going up at 8pm tonight anonymous :-) Thank you!!!! xKelly
I'm pretty much the opposite to you - I breast fed, sahm, coslept and had the most organised napoy bag when my kids were babies. Yet the things I didn't do and the things you did is fine because you are still a rocking mum doing what you want to/need to, exactly as anyone else. Ps I said I would never do half the things I did, haha 3 kids later and I've gone and done it all and my kid would never be "that kid" bahahaha, I wish I knew better than to say never :-)