My son was diagnosed a few months ago with ADHD (but not the hyperactive type) my husband and I always knew he was a little different than the other kids he is a good kid very caring and takes everything to heart. He starts high school next year and I'm a little worried about how he is going to go. The paediatrician recommends private schooling or a tutor or even meds in order to concentrate on school work. I didnt realise how much this condition can affect people. I don't know how on earth we can afford private schooling or a tutor has any one else had this problem? Any ideas?
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It isnt always as expensive as you think it is. Also you may be able to get some sessions with a psychologist who can help your son develop coping mechanisms on mental health care plan. You can advertise at unis for psych students etc to tutor your son at pretty much minimum wage. Even if he needs 5 hrs a week if tutoring that's about $100 which most people can find. I'm a sole parent to a child with disabilities and find double that money a week for therapies. You juggle, you cut back, you do what you have to :)
You also maybe entitled to carers allowance which is $110 a fortnight through centrelink. But honestly I have to run a tight ship. Hair cuts are a treat, eating out is a treat, I drive an old car, and new clothes are a rarity. We do what we can for our kids. Medication can be a game changer for some kids so don't let someone try and guilt you out of trying it for your son.
I know some people think medicating the child is the easy option, it's not. It's a huge decision and one you don't make easily. The good results in our situation though far out way the bad. He is able to concerntrate and most importantly learn as a result. We only medicate during school time and he actually asks for it if we somehow forget so he can stay out of trouble and again, learn. Without it, he says it's like watching tv with someone constantly changing the channel. Best of luck, do what's right for your family.