Post anon please.
When do you decide it's not worth your sanity anymore? I'm with an aspie partner. I've invested a lot of time money and energy into him and his kids as well as renovating his house with little help from him. He's like another child but when I tell him to pick up his game as a partner he does for all of 2 or 3 days.
My kids detest his kids and they fight a lot. My kids follow house rules majority of the time and his rarely do. I work full time but do everything for him and all of the children. I start in a more challenging role in January and am wondering if living together is still viable. What would you do?
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I think you already know the answer to your issue. This guy is zapping your energy & your kids know he's not good for you. You've tried your hardest, but I think you know it's time to pull the pin. Stay strong
I'm an aspie, and I wouldn't put up with him and I would leave. Being an aspie is no excuse for not working in a partnership. He behaves like he does because he is lazy not an aspie as he has proven he knows what to do by pulling his socks up. Your parenting styles sound incomparable too which is a big deal breaker for me in any relationship.
He uses being an aspie as an excuse. I know it's crap and i call him on this but he says yeah i know. Frustrating much!
I think thats your answer