Need opinions please ladies
So theres this lady that is single and makes no secret of looking for a husband. Which is fine but she seems pretty friendly with mine.
They see each other socially when I'm not with him she's part of 'the boys' that hang out. I've met her a few times and she's always made weird random comments about not expecting me to be there cause I should be home with kids. Anyway we took our son out to a function last week and she was there. She was playing with him which he enjoyed but then she randomly said to him Would you be jealous if I go sit next to daddy and hold his hand? She then walked away and sat next to daddy.
I kinda stood there a bit dumb founded and then the function ended so didn't get a chance to say anything to her.
Just left me uncomfortable. Am I overthinking or is that a completely weird comment?
My husband said its nothing he doesn't know why she said it and don't ask him why and brushed off my concerns
Is she hitting on my husband?
Is she hitting on my husband?
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Personally my husband would be uncomfortable if some lady did this to him. She seems pathetic. I don't think I'd like it, but she's just making herself look pathetic and desperate really.
She's hitting on him
Yeah she's hitting on him. I'd be calling her out on it. I hate it when women go after men they know have families.
Yea hitting on him. feral lady to joke with the kid about her intentions and how it'd hurt him too...
I think it sounded like she was having a dig at you by saying that stuff to your son.! What is your husband telling her that's what I'd be asking her..
Seems strange, is it possible they are already having an affair? Those are pretty bold statements to be making to be just "flirting" and trying to to get him. These kinds of comments sounds like the comments a lady would make to my friend and turned out her husband had been having an affair with her all along. I'd be verrry careful. and for your husband not to think anything of it....hmmm NO! IT IS WEIRD and any man would be able to see that
I would not trust this skank, I feel she is flirting with your husband and attempting to stroke his ego. There only has to be weak part in your relationship (physically, emotionally etc) and this women would fulfil that and then thier relationship will start.
I would take this seriously even if u and your husband r solid
From personal experience that girl slept with my husband. She was one of the guys and they all got drunk together, he passed out on the couch and when everyone else went to bed she had her way, for lack of a better term :) moral of the story is I knew she was up to something and ignored it...never ignore your instincts, he may not be in on it but if you feel she is then your probably right (hubby may not have noticed I know mine can be pretty oblivious)
You cant control other peoples behaviour and that includes your husband by telling him he must stay away. Its called trust you either have it or you dont and if you dont its very likely your marriage fail. The only thing i would address is the words spoken to the child.
I was in your shoes once - spoke up, was brushed off as being insecure/jealous etc...
I'm now a divorcee with 4 sons & the ex is with the (disrespectful) woman & her 2 children from two previous r'ships and they now have a daughter together.
Unfortunately they were "each others first" from high school so you know, it was fate.....! (yes, sarcasm (; )
No advice, but yes, trust your gut & get it sorted asap. Hugs.
Ummmmm. WTF!!! She's way out of line!! I would be in an absolute rage if someone said something like that to my child. I can understand why you were a but dumbfounded though. It's quite unbelievable that someone would do that. It would take a bit to sink in.
You're going to have to have a serious chat to your husband. Tell him you're upset about the situation. Don't accuse him of anything. You really need it clarified though.
She seems like a nasty piece of work. Playing games.
Good luck.