I think it's just a flat day but everyone around me seems to be pregnant and we just had a miscarriage. I know our turn is next and I know we are very lucky to have one child already. But still just wanting to hear some postive pregnancy after miscarriage's.
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know how you feel. I had a miscarriage in between my first and second, and now pregnant again. with my miscarriage I didn't bleed or have any symptoms so it was a shock when we went for the ultrasound, had to have a procedure to remove the foetus. to this day I have major anxiety about ultrasounds. my partner and I did not attempt to conceive again until after the due date of the baby that would of been, I know it may sound crazy but I felt it would have been disrespectful somehow? I guess what I am trying to say is,, don't feel pressured, grieve, for as long as you feel. and cherish that little one you have. I hope this helps xx
I had a miscarriage 2yrs ago very early at 5wks and I'm now 6wks, getting past that 5wk mark definatly boosted my confidence. Good luck!!
It's hard isn't it. You want to be happy for them but it still hurts. Your bub will come when the times right. And believe me I know how hard that is to believe. I had 3 losses before getting my boy and have had another loss 3 mths ago and desperate to fall preg again.
I just have to tell myself everything happens for a reason and must be a reason for not getting our much wanted 2nd child yet.
Big hugs for you x I have posted your question on the facebook site too and hope it helps x
https://www.facebook.com/Theimperfectmum/posts/642074065859227?stream_re...
We have three beautiful children now (DD 6, DD 5, DS 4 mths), but had a miscarriage before each successful pregnancy. I know it's hard to stay positive when everyone around you is getting pregnant, but I believe that it happens for a reason, and that the children you are meant to have will come to you. Enjoy this time with your little one and make sure you talk about it with your closest friends, to help you with the grieving process. Good luck in the future mummy!
Stay positive. I had a miscarriage before my now 3 year old daughter. We started trying for a second child this year and I miscarried again in May. I had one period after that and then fell pregnant again and I am now 24 weeks today. Good luck and keep trying! X
I had four progressive miscarriages - at 6, 9, 12 then 17.5 weeks. I then found a professor who dealt with high risk pregnancies and it was doing I had a weak cervix and t shaped uterus. I've since had three high risk pregnancies and have 3 beautiful kids to show for it, a 10yo, 2.5yo and 4mo.
I had 2 m/c in 6 months its heartbreaking and certainly very hard to hear of people close you becoming pregnant.
When I had my first one my SIL showed up at my door in tears to tell me she was preg she had been trying but was scared it would hurt me. I gave her a hug and told her not to be silly I was happy for her and couldnt wait to enjoy her baby :-)
A few months after her son was born I was preg with my now 2.5 year old :-)
Your turn is coming :-) Hugs for the pain it causes though..
Had a miscarriage late September and pregnant again in November. Every miscarriage I have had has ended in a live birth the next pregnancy. It will happen for you!