I am feeling devastated after seeing first hand that one of my favourite people in the world has been through a horrible time is truly neglecting her two amazing children. I get she is hurting but I heard one of her children remind her at 4 pm that she had forgotten to feed them all day. Once The kids had been picked up by her exes family and we arrived at the party watching her get so drunk and put herself in so much danger by just hanging onto literally any man that showed her attention has just broken my heart. She was so out if it that she just had no idea how many men were just grabbing and quite frankly violating her. I am so scared for her and kids that I just can't sleep: as her friend I want to help but really don't know what to do. She is taking random men home to the house the kids are at. Last week she apparently had a 3 some with 2 people she had never met whilst the kids were sleeping. I care so much about her but is it time to report her
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If you've spoken to her and tried to get her to seek some metal health help, and she has refused then it's probably time to report.
How very sad for you. I agree, time to report it is out of love for her and her children. Imagine if something happened to the kids while she was out of it. I think she needs to hit rock bottom before she can come back to the top good on you xxx
Can I please ask what her response is when you tell her this is not ok? I am only assuming that you have told her that what she is doing is very bad! Only because you said that she is one of your most favourite people in the world! If this was my best friend she would have had a BIG talking to be myself that's for sure!
I feel like I know who this person is, or there is two special people in this small world living the exact same life! I am struggling with my friend with basically exactly that story!!! I have been very honest with her, she MUST put herself and her children first or I will be stepping in to make sure they are safe. Weather that means talking to the ex husband and letting him know what's going on or just making a plan for the kids to call me anytime if the need I will be doing it. She is entitled to her fun and freedom however not at her childrens and her healths expense