OK, there's this guy I have been chatting to from an online dating site. We started chatting 2 weeks ago. He was calling and texting up to 3 times a day. We have spoken on the phone up to 3 or 4 times some days, but at least once every single day. We met on Thursday. He gave no indication that he didn't want to see me again, in fact even texted me that afternoon asking how I felt about meeting again and I said that would be great. He said he had a great time got a goodbye hug and kiss and a rose as well. Now fast forward 2 days later. I've barely heard from him, he says he's been out at his dad's farm helping and there's been no signal for his mobile. He said he would call me later today if he can. Not sure what to think now. It's a bit strange to go from talking every day multiple times over the phone and now nothing. I've had a few texts and that's been it.
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Honestly, when guys text and call that much it's just not maintainable! How is he getting any work done? Lol don't get caught up in the number of times he contacts you in one day and these things that start full on like that just can't stay like that. If he is still sending you some texts that's a good sign. Remember this is early days and don't get too emotionally invested yet.
Ok just relax! Don't go getting super attached yet its such early days. it sounds like your way over thinking the whole thing and you will come across as super clingy!
Hes probably honestly at his dads with crap reception. Heres something funny, when my fiance and I first started dating, he used to keep his phone in his sock at work so he could text me on his breaks and he had no pockets. However the foot sweat kept wrecking his phones so it was a little impractical! your entire day cant be dedicated to texting and calling someone. Go and keep yourself busy and do something productive instead of staring at your phone and stressing.