New relationship worries

Anon Imperfect Mum

New relationship worries

Just after some advice it's not really baby related but I'm a single mum to a 13 month old and have been getting to know a really nice guy only issue is that he already has 5 children from a previous marriage just wondering if I should run as far as possible or could things possibly work between us.. I would really like to have at least one more child and he says he is happy with that as well. He sees his kids regularly and pays the child support needed ??? Any one with advice it would be greatly appreciated.. Thanks in advance

Posted in:  Relationships & Marriage, Parenthood Guilt, Kids

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Why would you run because he has kids?? If he takes care of them and is a good Dad that should really be a good thing I think..
My Hubby had 2 children when we met as did I from a previous relationship we now have 2 together aswell. Us and our 6 children are very happy and I couldnt ask for anything more.
Being a blended family has its obstacles but can usually be over come with communication..
The only warning I will say is be careful that the kids are all equally involved in things and there are set rules for all.
Hope it works out for you :-)

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Charmaine Henderson

My partner and I have a friend who is a single dad of 5. It is heartbreaking to hear how ladies he starts getting to know bolt because they think it's too much. Give your really nice guy a chance, he could be the one ;).

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Just wondering if this could be posted to the fb page to hopefully get some more feedback and advice please .ps thanks to those have given advice already

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