Hi all I have a tricky question about the neighbours kids.
Our kids are very similar ages (our oldest are 9 months apart, our younger are 3 months apart. Then there is 2 years between them all)
Their oldest is quiet mean too our animals and our younger girl, but sneaky about it.
Today he was throwing a ball at our girl with force, our boy chased him, then our neighbours boy kicked our boy, our boy then hit him.
I disciplined our boy, and our neighbour told our boy to leave him alone. This isn't the 1st time we have caught him being mean and our boy gets in trouble.
We are quite hard on our boy about violence and our girl has seizures so he knows that he can't do anything to hurt her as it is a trigger.
Our neighbour boy has thrown balls at our cat numerous times. (Our cat now goes away if he see them)
But some how their boy never gets caught but our boy always does.
I'm not the type of person that yells at other peoples kids. I'm sick of how violent he is. He has only just started prep, our boy goes next year. So they are only little.
Neighbours kids and our kids playing together
Neighbours kids and our kids playing together
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If you don't pull him up on it who will?
sneaky or not, you n ur kids ( ur cat) know what he is doing.
id speak to the parents about his behavior and id say something to him when it happens.
screw not getting angry at others kids, your Childs saftey comes first n I have no drama in telling parents that if they approach me. I'm nice about it, but very firm.
if my child was doing this, id want to know. I know some parents don't care but I'd still say something so at least if they see u get angry at him they know why.
I wouldn't care how old they are. I would not allow them to play with your kids. Talk to your kids and tell them you know how the neighbour's kids behave & it is wrong.