My partner and myseld are devastated to say the least. We had a still born in 2012, and since then we have been trying to have another baby. We finally fell pregnant 8 weeks ago, filled with joy we let close friends know that we were expecting a new bundle of joy..
at 7 weeks we had our ultrasound too check too see if everything was going well and detirmind our due date.
everything was perfect. heart beat healthy ect. and the ultrasouns tech didnt indicate anything wrong.
five hours later we lost our baby.
i guess my question is, is there hope? will we get another chance?
why does this happen to us?
im not realy coaping, iv lost two babies now. how do i over come this. :/
misscarage after trying so long..
misscarage after trying so long..
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I have a friend that went thru this, after the miscarriage they fell pregnant nearly straight away. Apparently you are extremely fertile straight after being pregnant. So if you feel up to it your chances maybe better right now. Good luck & im so sorry for your loss.
Oh honey it's so hard I'm so sorry you're going through this. My story is different, I can't imagine the pain after a stillbirth :-( but maybe it'll help to share
I had multiple miscarriages trying for my son, all between 8-16weeks and same thing had great scans but then lost them with no reason. Then I had my son, it wasn't until he was about 6mths old I could believe he was here I was so paranoid the whole pregnancy and then of sids.
After 2 yrs we tried to add to family and again had multiple miscarriages. Every single one was heartbreaking and I've lost a piece of me. Finally we got my daughter who is now 7mths old and I'm only just starting to relax and believe she's mine and here.
It is a really hard process to go through, I can really understand your devastation. And it may seem easy for people to say just keep trying and they'll seem heartless but honestly the pain will be with you forever but it is worth continuing to try. Eventually that baby that's meant to be will be in your arms
I don't think you'll ever have an answer to why you, life just sucks sometimes!!
I'm not sure how long you were trying but if it's been a long time perhaps it's worth seeing a fertility dr? That doesn't mean it has to be ivf there are a lot of steps beforehand but they can help you with different options to conceive easier and things like certain medicines that can help prevent miscarriage. It's not a miracle cure but it is worth looking at, the support we received through our specialist was amazing and they helped reassure so much through the pregnancy with regular blood tests for hcg then wkly ultrasounds etc that you wouldn't normally get through gp. Helps relive the stress being reassured regularly and less stress is better for baby
thankyou both for your kind words.
to the second lady. youv given me hope with your touching story. thankyou for that x
There is hope. i have an angel baby that passed away at 2 days of age and have had 3 miscarriages. And i have 5 beautiful kids now
Did you have an internal ultrasound? Please know that you have a right to refuse an internal examination and ultrasound!