mediation

Hi IM

I need some advice. Please post when you get a chance.

When my daughter was born my ex was not ready to be a dad so he decided to end our r'ship and move on. 9 months later he decided to re-enter but only wanted to be apart of our daughters life (which was fine my me, after all he was her dad). He would come to my house and see our daughter three times a week and when she turned 10 months I decided he could start taking her one on one 2 days every fortnight. Since then the hours have increased significantly. We have a private arrangement that has been working well up until recently.

Last Sat he was unable to see our daughter (she's now 21 months old), however he said that he was able to see her this weekend (which was not his scheduled weekend) but I advised him that we were going away and unfortunately I was unable to accommodate his request.

Well that was the end of it. He started cussing me and telling me that I was keeping our daughter from him and so forth. I was completely shocked at his attitude. He just became a monster. I hadn't heard from him after that until I got home from work on Thurs and received a letter stating that he wanted me to attend mediation. I was so disappointed. Since my daughter was born I have accommodated him accordingly and he goes and does this bc the ONE time I cannot.

I would like to know other mummas thoughts on this please.

TIA