Looking for tips to live in moment. I am finding lately I am always thinking about the next step. We move often, due to husband's work, i feel like I'm waiting until we move into next house until I will feel settled. I get distracted easy, even though I try give my kids lots of attention and my time, i just feel like I will miss out on this special time with them, they are 2 and half and 5 months. I guess I always feel like I'm waiting for something else to happen before my life will begin. Hope I worded that OK.
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Not sure how to help hun, just wanted to offer some support! And say I don't blame you at all. If I had to move all the time I would probably feel the same. Would be very strange not being able to have your own house ... I would probably get to the point where I just started leaving boxes packed up not bothering to unpack them. Hard to make a house your own when you live like that, I guess? Big hugs and hopefully there are some other mummies who can help you out :)
Maybe it's a case of 'Can't see the forest for the trees' (or however it goes!) and you're looking at too big a picture? Try and just focus on being 100% where you are right now and doing 100% in that.
I also recommend an attitude of gratitude too! Not saying you don't already have one - but for me - recognising that everything is a gift and precious and can be taken away changes my perspective a lot. We are not guaranteed tomorrow, so be thankful for and live 100% today :-)
Hope that helps in some way? Big hugs! x
Meditation. I have a great app called Omvana. You can download it free from your Itunes store. I do a meditation everynight and morning. X
Meditation. I have a great app called Omvana. You can download it free from your Itunes store. I do a meditation everynight and morning. X