Help my partners sis in law keeps feeding info to his ex who he has a 4.5 year old with
We have an almost 2 year old and a 3 month old together and are constantly battling for custody arrangements she expects him to leave work or drop everything to pick him up from daycare if she can't make it I wouldn't mind if it was close but it's 30 mins away I am finding we are always doing things to suit her and not us is anyone else in this situation (from either side) and does anyone have tips on how to tell my partners sis in law to but out without causing a fight??
Help with sis In laws an exs?
Help with sis In laws an exs?
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We had very similar issues with my husbands sister passing on our personal info to his ex. Unfortunately my husband talked to his sister on 3 separate occasions about this with no change. He no longer talks to or has a relationship with his sister. I can only suggest you discuss your feelings with her but it appears she doesn't have much regard for your privacy if she is doing this. Hope you can work something out as it is a very difficult situation
Can you limit the amount of information the SiL gets in the first place? ie, if her information is coming from facebook, unfriend her. If it's coming from other family, limit the information going out altogether until there is nothing left to tell. In my experience there are people that just can't shut up and will spout whatever they can think of just to avoid silence so she may not even be doing it intentionally. Are parenting orders in place? Get these instances written down in a journal - and as often as possible have it verified by a witness so if one of you pick the lad up from daycare have one of the daycare workers just sign to state that you have picked him up when you go to get him. It all stands in good stead with the ongoing custody battle.
Or instead of un friending her whitch could cause drama there is a settings button next to where you post things you can remove her from seeing everything and she wont even know or let her see some things ect