I have 3 healthy children. Girl 7. 2 boys 3 and 2. I also work full time as well as my husband. We are all very happy. I'm now thinking of having another baby. I would love to complete my family. But saying that I don't want to be selfish and have another because I want to complete my family. I have a job to go back to I would have 2 at school 2 at home and would go back to work after year. Working part time would be better for me though and that's something I wouldn't need to discuss with my boss .
I convince myself not to as I have 3 kids and am happy and then minutes later I'm back at thinking about having another . I need advice .
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What does your husband husband say?
He isn't all for it like me. He hasn't said no though .he says he doesn't know if he could do one more ?
Well I wish it was me that didn't want another one. Only you can answer, and if your husband is supportive of you decision then I would go for it. You are not selfish for wanting another child. My husband says it's all about me because I want another one and he doesn't.
That's pretty much what I'm waiting on is hubby as I wouldn't just fall pregnant I need and want his support . I think it's a personal decision when ur comes to another baby and your hubby needs to realise that saying it's all about you is hurtful