Having a vent!!
My sister in law is driving me crazy!! I feel like her way is the only way!!
I feel like she is an awful person and I wish everyone could see What I see!!! I have never met anyone so Self absorbed to the point where she puts here children second!! I guess I'm just wondering is there anyone out there that feels the same way as I do about there sister in law and what can I do to avoid her!! I could confront her about my feelings but she is so self obsessed she wouldn't care!! I'm just so over her and wish I didn't have to have her in my life!!! Oh and my partner feels the same way!!
LAdies what should I do???
Please don't tell me I'm not the only one out there that feels this way bout there in laws!!!
Hating on sister in law
Hating on sister in law
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Don't do anything, she isn't yours to fix. She didn't grow up in a vacuum and this is learnt behaviour from the entire family.
Let it go, it isn't your responsibility to fix the family it's your responsibility to live in it as peacefully as possible. You don't have to like her, just be polite and if it is hubbies family it's his job to organise everything, hence minimising stress on you.
If you don't want her in your life, it is simple, don't see her. If the kids are in danger then contact the authorities.
Your post sounds like you just don't like her and therefore don't want to have anything to do with her. Be an adult and deal with it properly.
And to be honest, the way your post is worded - says more about you, it doesn't paint you in a very nice light.
This post sounds like my sister in law, who once told me that the attention is always on me and her brother and never herself! Like seriously! I now avoid her, we don't have much to do with them. I'm alot happier within myself now that I have let it all go. As much as it hurts not seeing her daughter it's little to pay for not having the negativity and down right awfulness she brings into any meeting. Christmad is horrible with her around and some gatherings. My husband knows exactly what she is like and avoids her also. Cutting her off was the only solution.
I agree your post does not really suggest anything other than you dislike her with no real valid reasons as such !! I beleive there is always 3 sides to a story the truth and each side!! Sounds like you and your partner have a lot of hate maybe look closer to home and look at how you view people also !!
Whoa. Maybe there's a little bit of anger from you... Her post explains why she's annoyed.
My SIL is the same! Narcissistic doesn't even cover it. I don't want to avoid her as I love my niece and nephews. It's a crap place to be in. Wish I had an answer for you. All I can say is, you're not alone! Maybe we've got the same SIL. Haha!
I had a falling out with nine last year we don't speak, I bite my tounge and be civil at family gatherings other than that I have nothing to do with her. And will be keeping it that
Lol your not alone :)
My sister in law shirts me so much! Her kids are 10 and 13 and it's like the kids are the parents and her and hubby are the kids. The kids are expected to clean the whole house and occasionally cook dinner. My sil and hubby lately have been getting my other sil to take them most weekends for sleepovers but when it comes to my 3 you old Noone offers. I want a break occasionally! My silly and hubby even leave the kids at home so they can go out to lunch!!