I need some advice, sorry for the long post....last year my friend left her husband, the split was aweful, but I stayed by her side, a shoulder to cry on, phone calls all the time ect. She didn't stay single for long, even though we all told her to enjoy being single and have time with your kid's, she didn't listen, found a guy off the net, now there madly in love, talking about marriage ect. But she dumps her kid's on her sick parents and drives 3 hour's to be with him every weekend. I don't hear from her at all, if I text to see if she wants to catch up, she's already got plans that are booked and paid for. What should I do, let the friendship go ????
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Don't let the friendship go completely.. be there for her with a quick 'I told ya so' if it falls apart hehe but be there for her when times are good too.. It is time to let your hand go just a bit and try to be happy for her. Its hard and sometimes bloody hard. But you seem like a good friend its just time to change the dynamics of the relationship. As for what she does with her kids and her parents its best not to judge because that makes drama in the situation when really you just miss her.
Friends are our friends wether they are making good decisions or bad! Maybe don't contact her quite as often. Leave that door open.