Hi IM's,
I desperately need some help and advice.
I have had a friendly relationship with a dad at school and have talked to him while waiting to pick up our children. He asked to be Facebook friends and started to send me messages that bordered on being way to fresh. He says he's just being cheeky. This dropped off early last year as I told him I had started to see someone but was then informed that he was doing it to another mum or 2. We attend a very small school so we know people talk.
This year his son is in my daughters class and I have been passing clothes down to his daughter through giving them to his wife or him at school but on Tuesday I had to drop it off at his home. I didn't stay it was a drop and run. He has now taken this to start sending me messages again. I am angry and pissed off as his wife is a very lovely lady and she has no idea. I want to tell her that her husband is a sleazy bastard but how do you do that? He makes me sick and it doesn't matter what I say while I try and be polite he turns it around and puts a sleazy edge on it. I just want to scream at him FUCK OFF!!!!!!! What do I do?
Fellow parents husband flirting with me.
Fellow parents husband flirting with me.
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Block him! Don't be so nice to the sleazy bastard! Are you really sure his wife has no idea? Block him, distance yourself from him by just saying a quick hello and moving on when you see him in public.
If you really feel the wife is clueless then mention it to her but usually it back fires and makes this sound like your a husband stealer, so I'd just leave them to there circus and distance yourself.
Yuck. What a Sleaze. I would draw a big fat line. Tell the wife if you want , it's hard though, he probably spins it off to her, she knows he's a 'flirt' ( read douche )
I wouldn't entertain it, cut him off and cut him out, make everything wives /women only and don't apologise for it.
If you have a friend mutual to you and this wife and you trust her or him, get the mutual friend to PM the wife saying hubby is Fbing people with comments that COULD be misinterpreted. If as you say he is spreading the love around, wife will not need to victimise any one, just b ave a quiet word with hubby about boundaries.