Hopefully someone can help. I'm feeling very emotional and left out. Recently I had a birthday and I invited a friend up with her boyfriend. I had a BBQ the next day with some other friends. They both have partners, I don't. But the 2 guys have become best friends as well as my 2 friends, that's cool, but my old friends partner would rather stay with new friend because they are mates now and not at my place. Also old friends partner for some reason doesn't like me. I'm trying not to make it school yard crap but every weekend just about since they come up ignore me and stay there. I just feel really left out and hurt. I've tried telling my old friend but she just cares that her boyfriend has got a friend. That's great meanwhile she's hurting me. I love them both dearly Wondering if anyone else would feel the same
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I'm guessing you mean that your friends used to stay with you when they 'come up' otherwise I'm totally confused
I don't think its anything to do with u personally, I think that perhaps your old friend's partner feels more comfortable staying at a house with another guy that is also his mate, than in a house with two girls...he probably feels like the third wheel when he stays at your house. And from your friend's point of view, trust me, there is nothing more annoying than a bored parnter hanging around like a bad smell when you just want to chill out with your friends. Talk to your friend about it, as long as your still hanging out as a group and stuff and your still included try not to think they have forgotten you. But I understand your feelings too. Xx chin up lovely.