THINK ABOUT IT
Think of meeting 'the one' in the upmost strangest place.
Think of them accepting your children as thier own.
Think of having a life of happiness, fun and laughter.
Think about making a new life and a new start for you all.
IMAGINE HAPPINESS
Think about being whisked away on a beautiful holiday and being proposed too.
Think about him asking you kids for thier mums hand in marriage.
Think about the smiles of pure glee on those kids faces.
IMAGINE LOVE
Think about planning a new life together.
Think about making dreams and hopes together.
Think about the "excitement" of the big day looming.
Think about the never ending love for your new little family.
IMAGINE DREAMS
Think about those little arguements you had.
Think about the hurt on your loved ones face.
Think about the forgiveness you gave.
IMAGINE LUST
Think about the hurtful words said.
Think about the scared little faces.
Think about the tears of fear.
Think about threats being made.
IMAGINE MENTAL ABUSE
Think about more serious threats made.
Think about your kids being involved.
Think about the blame being put on you and your kids.
Think about the hate they have for you.
IMAGINE MONSTER
Think about you saying it's over.
Think about saying again it over.
Think about how you think they will change for you.
IMAGINE BROKEN LOVE
Think about the continual abusive words.
Think about the continual threats.
Think about thier tantrums.
Think about how your true love has changed.
IMAGINE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
Domestic violence is real!!
I'm going through it myself now.
We were so in love,
He loved my kids,
His drinking got bad,
His anger got scary,
My love faded.
He blamed my kids for his faults and drinking habits.
He pushed us to our limits.
I GOT OUT
It's only the beginning to an end and people will say you should have left years ago.
But it's harder then you think to leave domestic violence. Unfortunately this is my second DV relationship in 15 years.
Don't pity me because I'm strong and I will move on.
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS REAL
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS REAL
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Hi I am also in this now. I have to meet with child services in a few weeks and am also apparently high risk due to his escalating violence and threats. He keeps saying he wants to give me black eyes and break my nose and says it like he is joking. Which is very mentally confusing. He pulled me back by my hair infront of my son and also tried to say he would blame my son infront of him if I had a black eye. I told him the police wont believe that then he said he would say I fell onto a door knob. Etc...
People do not understand and I guess I didnt understand either before I woke up to it. Anxiety is exhausting. I have lost myself. I am not the best mum I can be and I really hate feeling so weak and not being able to make my own decisions.
Its incredible somethings and sometimes we can seem like a completely normal family. Which now seems to be getting rarer. I really find it so interesting how he can act so like a dad and normal sooo in front of his family...
Its the hardest most painful thing and scariest thing I have ever been through. We have no idea when he will snap or what he could potentially do.
I dont have huge support either. Its really hard that my family minimize what I say and dont support me much.
I hope you are ok and are doing welll.xx
I've been there too... I spoke to his mother, as I didn't want mine to know... The second I got out, she blamed me... It is the most difficult thing to do, but you will be better off... No one will ever really understand, but that doesn't matter... What matters is that you know, and you're doing what you need to to be safe... I hope you and your son get out safely, you'll never look back xx