I've had so many losses and we finally conceive a baby that has been growing strong and do you think my partner has shown even the littlest acknowledgement NO! He wouldn't even get off his computer game to come to the ultrasound. Today has resulted in an argument because i felt it was time we maybe considered some nursery furniture particulary a pram and guess what the computer game came first the computer game. I'm the worst person in the world he has played this computer game all day. Every time I speak about the baby checkup I'm ignored he literally says next to nothing. Today it brought me to tears. I'm so angry. I turned the net off and all he could ask is can I turn it backonn not listening to a word I'm saying. I honestly just want to break his phone and his face write now he even had the cheek to say he wish he could move out and have his own place. Well at this point I couldn't care if he took his lousy self away.
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pfft, tell him to move out! You don't need that shit, you're gonna have a beautiful bubba!!
There could be a couple of things going on here.
1. He is detached emotionally from the baby because he doesn't want to be disappointed again.
2. He's a selfish prick who has no real interest in having kids.
3. He has a gaming addiction.
What do you think is the most likely? If it's number 2 and then it's time for some tough choices. If he isn't interested in having kids (other than having unprotected sex) then that's unlikely to change once the baby is here, so maybe you need to think about your long term interests as a couple. Personally if he is saying stuff like he wants to move out, then I'd tell him to move out!
Sit down with him and talk. If he won't talk and tell you how he feels then it's time to move on. You need an adult partner not a child.
Spot on. Love this answer