Hello. I will get straight to the point lol I'm dating anew guy other than my kids dad. The new guy is great, he gets along great with my boys. And they like him. He has a 5yr old daughter and I just cant stand her. Sorry for the bluntness lol she's rude, a bad influence on my kids, whatever she wants she gets (from everyone) not just him. How do I get over this feeling because I really like him. When he does have her overnight, I dont stay because she sleeps in his bed. They shower together and she's just a spoilt brat to be honest. She looks exactly like the mother and I try to avoid seeing her because its just so draining and stressful. Please help! Do I move on or get over it?
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Move on. You don't like his kid and you don't like how he is raising her. If a guy didn't like how I was raising my child and didn't like my child, I'd be getting him out of my life so fast. So I think you are doing you and him a favour.
Ask yourself what you would want him to do if he didn't like your boys?
It's not a fair situation and it will only get a lot worse unless you can find a way to accept and love her
Move on. If you don't like his daughter then your parenting will clash and you aren't seeing a little girl, you see his ex. Pretty sad really that you have hate for such a little child. He spoils her to compensate the time away from her...bit too old to be having a shower with daddy at 5 but yeah...you should look elsewhere because his daughter is the apple of his eye.