Long story short My ex husband and I have been divorced for five years, we have an informal arrangement with the kids where they stay with him on weekends and any extras etc while our ex relationship hasn't always been perfect we've kept any immature moments from the kids. Two weeks ago he dropped the bombshell he was moving away. My son was quite young when we seperated so he hasn't really reacted, my daughter on the other hand had a close relationship with him and hasn't taken it well. I'm ashamed to say i haven't really taken her feelings into account when I've been telling her off lately. My question is how do help her deal with this and her unruly behaviour without allowing her to use this as a scapegoat for future incidents? If that makes sense?

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