So my partner and I have been together for about a year now, we're very happy and know this is it for us. He's the one. He's amazing with my children, we've become a great family unit. My issue is, I am EXTREMELY clucky. To the point where I'm thinking about it constantly. We have discussed having kids but he is very much a planner and wants to hold out for the right timing. I agree to an extent, but I can't help feeling the way I do. My youngest is about to start school, I'm studying and will be running my own business within the year, financially we are ok. But I think of all these reasons not to wait 5 years, like the age gap between kids, having to stop working again, which will mean rebuilding a client base and starting from scratch, mostly, I worry that if we wait too long I will be set in my independence and not have any desire to go back to the baby stage. At the end of the day, I am so clucky it is consuming me.. What do I do? Do I wait, and if I do, is there any way to rid myself of this overwhelming desire to become pregnant? Or do we do this now?
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