Communication

I just thought I would suggest a communication technique which could be applied when responding to IM questions. This technique can also be applied in everyday life and change our perspectives in situations.
Given that we do not know other people's lives, their hopes, dreams, past experiences, moral beliefs, lessons to learn etc., we can only project our opinions based on our own unique perspectives, which take into account those previously mentioned personal aspects.
Therefore, I believe it may be more beneficial to all of us if we consider responding according to this mentality.
For example, rather than saying, "You should be doing this..", we could say, "If this was my situation, I would be doing this..". And instead of saying, "What you are doing is wrong..", we could say, "I think it might help if you could try to approach it like this.."
Also, a personal attack or judgement on another person is only a projection of that judging person's belief. Considering our limited knowledge of each posting IM, perhaps we can acknowledge that attacks and judgements of others are made in ignorance?
This isn't just about using different words to say something, this is about compassion for others and understanding that we all live very different lives each with our own unique purposes.