Career and kids advice post from a few days ago

Wow. I'm the IM who has been having a hard time and posted advice for career minded women who were on the fence when it comes to having kids. It's a shame this page is named the Imperfect Mum because it appears it is followed by a large majority of judgmental, perfect women!!!
After reading through many of the responses I literally wanted to kill myself so yeah, thanks for the push over the edge. Fortunately, i instead returned to read a couple more posts and found a couple non-judgmental people - ONE of who recognised that perhaps there was a myriad of issues, including depression involved. One out of, at the time I first saw the post , about 50.
Thank you to those non-judgmental women who didn't immediately jump to conclusions and instead showed compassion and common sense. Your thoughtfulness literally saved my life that day. As for the perfect women saying how selfish and hope your kids don't know. Of course they don't and they never will. I may be struggling but I'm certainly not stupid or uncaring!!!! My kids would never even have an inkling as I do my best every day to ensure it. And yes I did word the title wrong , it should have been "due to the decision/agreement" to have kid, not thanks to kids.
Again to all the judgmental perfect women out there - no I didn't give context for the post for various reasons, including the health of the kids/family and other factors as really it was just advice. Plenty of us, unfortunately, have been or have to go through severe illnesses or diseases - point is I knew I'd be crucified whether I gave context or not by the ones who didn't know where I was coming from. The few who said they understood is interesting - they are few and far between! This was aimed at them. If you differ in opinion or don't understand why even type "scrolling on" just don't type anything. And please for the love of God stop ASSUMING. whether you have details or not some of you really need to think before you speak. I feel sorry for any friends of yours who may be feeling similar to me. Even posting in an anonymous forum gets you crucified so they'll certainlh know who not to discuss their concerns with if/when they see your names in the comments. Sorry for rambling I haven't had much sleep in a long time! My point is I was seriously tipped over the edge thanks to most of your lack of thoughtfulness, compassion, common sense in an advice and support forum which was/is obviously badly needed (and appreciated). Thank you again to the, sadly, few who were nice to me, even if you didn't agree. I got to be here with my kids instead of no longer on this earth thanks to you lovely ladies. This time I am crying because I am grateful to you few, instead of bawling as I read through all the nasty comments. Thank you.