Baby after stillbirth

Anon Imperfect Mum

Baby after stillbirth

Helpp! I had my amazing daughter a year ago unfortunately she passed away :( . I have a blood clotting condition she passed due to blood clots in placenta and in cord. I want yo try again. But im so scared i dont want to put my other 2 children through lossing another sibling or my family. But i cant get it out of my head all i want is another baby.. not to replace my daughter but to complete my family. Im lost drs say their hope but i dont know what to do . Should i just get over it and be happy with the 2 children i have. Should i risk it all and try again! ? Anyone been in my situation? Was the outcome good or bad? ( i also have high blood pressure and had a clot in my lung a week after having my daughter) i am so torn on what to do :( can someone please share their experiences? Sorry i have no one to talk to no one understands y i feel like this they just want me to "get over it"

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Anon Imperfect Mum

If you want to try again - do it
Only a suggestion but why don't you and your partner keep the baby plans to yourselves until your say 6-7 months , then tell them.
I'm so sorry for your loss minna, I've only ever had one successful pregnancy and I couldn't imagine going through what you have. Don't let others or others opinion change what u want to do:)

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