Hi ladies
I have a question to ask so my husband has shocked me by saying he thinks he would like another baby we have 3 together 16, 13, n 10. After my youngest I thought we where done no more which was what he said when we started talking about having our 3rd. Now his said this ive played with the idea in my head and I think I want another one aswell but im unsure right now isn't time but really we dont have much time wait on this his 45 and im 40 so our age is a big worry for me atm still alot of other things we would have to discuss but my question is how many of you have a baby later in life how did it all go with your health etc. How did you know that it was something you really wanted 10 yr age gap is huge. How did your older take it is it something you discussed as a family.
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My husband is the youngest of 5 (12 years between 4th and 5th). He hated growing up alone. By thr time he was 8 they had all moved out.
His dad couldn't do the things he did with the older boys.
He still tells his parents that it was irresponsible to have him so late.
We had children a few years earlier than we probably would have to make sure they could meet and remember their grandparents.
Be careful, men having affairs often request this, to keep you distracted from realising what they're up to.
It seems very out of the blue and odd for a man to want this.
I wouldn't say this to me but would do some digging/snooping.