My sexlife is boring and repetitive. So much so, I'm just not in the mood.
It's always a flick and twist of the nipple, with a light tap, followed with a light hair pull to roll me towards him. Its so routine, i hate it. He will then say "suck my ck" which I do. I gag until I almost puke. Then I ride him. He will get annoyed if I tire and ask him to hop on top.
Just once in a while, I'd like it if things were a little different. I can't remember the last time he went down on me. All the For play is about his arousal and not mine.
Thismorning, I woke to his usual groping. I asked him to nibble my neck, and go down on me, and he just kept grabbing at my titts like his life depended on it. He then lost interest when I told him he needed to get "my blood pumping." I said it in a seductive tone and moved his hands to where i wanted to be touched. He then turned our lack of sex on me, rather then listening to what I'd like him to do to me.
I feels he so selfish in the bedroom. I try so hard to spice things up. Outfits, asking him to shower with me, sex in places other than our room, like in risky places with a small chance of being caught out. Anything to bring back some excitement and thrill.
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There's sex and then there's intimacy. It sounds like it has become just another task for your husband to get his rocks off. If a man said 'suck my c' to me, I would tell him to f off and that would be the end of it.
So this needs boundaries and communication. I would be telling him I do not like this but I do like... if he does not bother listening, then eww, what a turn off. I would be absolutely saying no more of that, do not be so compliant. He is using you, chuck a sock and lube at him and tell him to use that until he decides he wants to show some more passion.
I would be trying to make more time for the light hearted, laughing together stuff. Not having sex just when he wants it. Make it a challenge and say no sometimes. A light touch here and there and hopefully a bit of that passion and build up will flow back into the bedroom.