Lonely Marriage

Hi Ladies,

My husband has been cold and distant for a long time now. He works, comes home and eats dinner, sometimes does some dishes or washing, games and then sleeps. He makes no effort to spend time with me, or have a conversation or even show any interest in the children or me. The only time he speaks to me is to tell me off. There has been no major incident to set this off. I’ve tried so hard to pour love into him and be intimate as this is his love language. I’d say he’s having an affair but he’s here at home or at work (we have a location app for our kids and it works both ways). I’ve tried talking to him about it but he says my reality isn’t true. He’s seen a doctor and they say he’s fine. I see him show care to his mother so I feel like it’s not like it not possible. I feel so hurt, unloved and lonely. I don’t know what to do. I can’t financially split because we have a high needs sick child (I’ve looked into this). So how do I live like this? What is going on with him?