Today, I sore the person, who stole over 20k from my parents business for the first time since she was charged. Most of that money was stollen, after she had been informed, my mother was dying. SHE STOLE MONEY FROM A DYING PERSON. I lost my mother a couple of months ago.
when I spotted her, at her new job, owned by her boyfriend, who we belive knew all about it, it took everything I had, not to walk over to her and smash her face on the counter. I'm not a violent person, but the the thought made me happy, and anxtious all at once.
I'm now sitting at home, holding back tears. Everything is so fresh.... I don't think iv ever hated a person so much in my life.
What kind of person steals from their employer? What kind of person steals from a dying person? What kind of person shows no remorse for what they did, no guilt......NOTHING?
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Ok, for your own sake, you need to find ways to think about her differently - only so that it doesn’t affect YOU this badly when you see her or think about her. What she did is extra raw to you because it’s connected to your mother, and it’s not fair to you and your mothers memory that this B has this much sway over you. Your mum would not want you in jail, or even raging or crying not for one day over this B. If your mum was here, she would handle it and move on, and you would help her. And you need to do the same.
Can she be charged? Has she? Can you take her to court on your mothers behalf? If yes, do it! And then for your own sake, let her rot and focus your thoughts on your mother and what she would do and want you to do.
As hard as it is, your mum would want you to let this go. Be free of the hurt and anger. It’s not worth it. Try and seek some professional help to work through it. Some people are so vile. We can never understand why they could do such a thing. It’s not worth it eating you up inside.