12 months post separation from a long term relationship, I have taken time for myself and have worked on myself, I don’t want it to be a rebound relationship, I certainly don’t want to unintentionally hurt someone….but I have a crush on a guy that frequents my work, we talk everytime we see each other, it’s easy conversation and not forced… how do I progress this relationship to the next step..
I haven’t dated in many many years, don’t know how to really be flirty or show that I am keen… I need tips fellow imperfect mums out there
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Firstly do you know if he is single? Ask him if he knows where single people go to meet people 🤪 tell him your story like you have here and act as though you aren’t interested in him and wait for his reply.
Yes he is, sorry I should of written that. Our relationships ended the same way. We are the innocent parties of toxic partners
When I worked with the public guys gave me their number quite often. I think just make a point that you’re chatting to them not treating them like a customer. It’s difficult because you’re at work, they won’t know if you’re keen or just working, but that’s also the best reason to ask for his number or hint that you would want to chat outside of work.
Yeah definitely feel out single situation/lifestyle/hobbies to suss him out first.