2 months into a new relationship. Should I run. Talks about other women all the time. Says he can't wait to check out his children's teachers as they are going by Miss.
Bit of a back story: he stated that there seems to be a lot of missus's as teachers and he can't wait to check them out. This was said in front of his 14 and 13 year old daughters and myself. I misheard him and thought he said Mrs's and said, they are married ones. He turned to me and said rather abruptly, I said missus's not Mrs. Maybe I should tell you to stop and listen before you speak like I say to my kids.
He told me from the get go, that he would love it if I turned up out of the blue at his place to surprise him. I did. Now apparently, I was trying to catch him out doing something. That thought had never crossed my mind, at that stage. He has a dig at just about everything I do. The way I drive, cook, speak. Because it's not how he would do it.
I know what I should do but I guess I just needed to put it down to realise. Thank you for reading.
Should I run.
Should I run.
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Sounds like a premonition of the future. Who needs the drama?
I bet the mother of his children would enlighten you about the trust she lost in him and why they aren't together.
Keep away from the drama, you won't regret that decision.
Yeap run and don’t look back.
The fact that he can talk so distastefully about the teachers trusted to educate his children is gross. Shows to me he has little to no respect for women (I can feel comfortable staying this, because my ex is the same and has no respect for women at all).
He also has a dig at you for everything you do. Why would you want to be so disrespected so early into the relationship! Leave before it gets worse and your self confidence and self esteem take a beating.
You deserve better ❤️
Yes leave 100%!! He’s showing you his true colours - listen to him, these are his values. He sounds completely gross!!
Yes. Do it!
It will only get worse, yes run.
The fact you have to ask means you need to do a lot of inner work on yourself and your self-esteem.
Stay single for a bit.
Also 2 months in, you should not have met those poor kids.
Those poor girls! Aside from the fact they shouldn’t have met dad’s new girlfriend so soon, how horrible for them to be hearing him talk about their teachers like that! He’s a pig!!!
Yes, I agree and imagine how many women they would have met.
I imagine the gfs don't last long, based on this post.
Op can't blame him for meeting the kids too soon, that's on her.
2 months in… this decision is a piece of cake! Crystal clear to me and he is showing you his total disrespect for women in general not just you. What a massive turn off. Defs run while you can.
Run like the wind mumma 🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️
Honestly do you even have to ask this? get rid of this guy asap.
Oh hell yes, you absolutely 100% run
This guy is a pig, and definitely not ready (or able) for a serious relationship.
At 2 months in, this is still very much the "honeymoon period" - and he already talks shit to you??? No way. Run like hell.
He's not even trying to hide he's an emotional abuser..... run.
You just have to ask yourself, is this how I want to be treated? What I want to see or hear everyday?
The more you put up with, the worse his behaviour and disrespect will become. The lower your self esteem will become. He'll start doing it in front of your loved ones & isolating you because they certainly won't put up with it.
So put on your sneakers, while you still have the confidence & freedom to use them. Go be awesome.
I feel so bad for you because your self esteem must be incredibly low to be putting up with this only 2 months in. You know this is only going to get worse. Please end it. Stay single and work on your self esteem and your confidence, only open yourself to a relationship when you know your worth x
Agree I read it thinking, I wonder how much worse it would have to get?! Man’s a walking red flag
Definitely Run, but invite his daughters over and tell him why in front of them. They need to know this isn’t acceptable and not to get a partner like that. Those poor girls, they need to know this isn’t right. He is their role model for future relationships 🤦♀️🥲
F that! Run!
Yes. Run. Your time is valuable, don’t waste it on him. Learn from this experience for what you want in a partner, and what you don’t!
Why are u even staying any second longer. Re read what you just wrote, what advice would you give to this person. Please don’t leave it one more day. Leave. Now.
How gross that he is talking about his kids teachers like this ? How will the kids respect the teachers if the parents don’t.
Run don’t walk away from this guy.
R.U.N = RUN! Sorry, but he sounds like a jerk.. Can you even imagine whats he'll be like when he starts getting comfortable & you see his true self?
No, no, nooooo!... and as fast as ur wee legs can carry u, lol..