I'm confused

Anon Imperfect Mum

I'm confused

What would it mean if ur current partner has several Tattoos of ex's
Names but won't get ur and been together afew years now

Posted in:  Life Lessons, Relationships & Marriage

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Maybe he doesn’t want any more tattoos?

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Maybe he realised how dumb that is? I mean how many times can you make the same mistake lol.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

It means he's maturing and realises it's a bad idea.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I have one with my ex’s name. I love my now-partner dearly but it’s just not something I’d do again. Is the relationship secure and safe? Maybe think about why it is you feel the way you do about it.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Why would you want to put your name on that list of regrets?! If anything, I’d be wanting removal or coverups

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I’m not being rude but maybe he has learnt his lesson. I think you should talk to him more about removing them rather than getting him to get another one with your name. You would feel like something is off but I don’t blame him. It’s nothing to do with you but having a long of girls names tattooed on him wouldn’t be a good idea. He may get yours down the track and have theirs removed.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Long list I meant

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Anon Imperfect Mum

That they're a slow learner. I could understand one, but a string of them? I don't know that I could put much faith in someone consistently making poor choices for such a long time.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Instead of your name maybe suggest something of meaning to you both.

My Husband hasn't got my name or any ex's names tattooed on him but my middle name is a flower and he is getting that flower tattooed on him instead of my name.

So that could be an option for your partner.

I wouldn't think anything about him not getting your name. Obviously he has learnt that tattoos last forever but a lot of relationships do not and him not getting your name could mean you are together forever

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Anon Imperfect Mum

learnt from his mistakes. ?

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Only one person can answer that. Have you asked? What have they told you?
I wouldn’t want to be added to a “list” of girls he Cleary didn’t learn from the first time. I’d be covering or removing them that’s for sure. Does he not care about you enough that he carries around their names? Why does he not want them removed or covered?
I’d be more questioning his thoughts and where you stand in his life.

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