have been married for 32 years. this past week have found out my husband has recently sent dick pics to someone we both know. she won’t speak to him anymore and after i blew up and questioned him about other things he admitted to having had a happy ending massage, he said only once, which i don’t think i believe. i can’t get my head wrapped around either of these things and i just need to hear points of view from
other women that may have been in this situation. please and thank you.
cheating husband ?
cheating husband ?
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Leave. 32 years or 2 years, he was unfaithful and doesn’t deserve your forgivness or respect.
He got a hand job from a random person AND sent unsolicited dick pics to a friend. He is a disgraceful human.
You deserve better
My guess is top of the iceberg. I mean sending them at all is weird, there’s no way he did it first time to a mutual friend. I think there’s a lot more to discover.
I would be out of there yuk and it never only happens once.
I'm sure I'm not far off the mark when I suggest this is not the guy you married.
It's ok to say no to who he is now and walk away. He's pretty gross, you don't need that bullshit in your life.
yep your right, he is definitely not who i thought i married. unless i’ve been stupid our entire marriage. maybe. who knows. it’s so upsetting and even when i’m typing this i can’t believe it.
You haven't been stupid mate, at worst you've been tricked your whole marriage - which is still on him, not you. Don't let his piss poor behaviour make you feel less than you are.
Get dressed up, put your dancing shoes on Mumma, go out and let loose with some friends and enjoy your self! Life is too short for this grub! Kick him to the kerb.
Nothing only happens only once. They always say this to lessen the blow ( no pun intended )
How humiliating for you. I would be absolutely horrified if my husband sent some a d! Pic. That is downright filthy, rude and disrespectful.I wouldn’t be able to stay if it was me. I’d be so humiliated.
There is no need for a question mark after cheating husband. He has more than likely done much worse and became more confident over time thus the d*ck pics. You have given him some of the best years of your life, it's time to get angry but use that energy to get away from him. Even if you do not leave him right now, it's time to start rebuilding your life outside of this relationship with him. Go out with friends and work on your own self-worth because it's a hard knock when they do these things and it's great to recognise it is 100 percent not you that caused it. This friend has done the right thing and is someone you want in your corner. Thank her and appreciate her honesty, not all women would be as respectful. Good luck Hun 💕
He's fucked a sex worker. And probably more than once. Absolutely lying about just being a happy ending .
My ex partner got a happy ending and I was disgusted. I tried to work through things but a year later I couldn't stand being in the same room as him. We had other issues and he was a narcissistic pig but that was definitely the icing on the cake.