Single for a little while now, I am needing guidance as to how to become more sexual with potential partners, I am not at all experienced (only 2 partners and it was always boring) i feel extremely self conscious of my ability or lack there of. How do I I feel sexy, desired and interesting to males
What tips, sites, guidance would you recommend for me for venturing into this unknown field. I live in a remote area so that limits my exposure opportunities and availability to some additional services
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You don't have to worry about ability unless you plan on getting paid for your services. Most men are easily pleased in the bedroom. If you know what you like use that as your guide, don't do things you don't want to do just because you think that's how you please a man. Tinder is a good way to find casual sex but if you live remote it means you have to keep seeing them around the place which can feel awkward if you want to forget them. I guess it depends how big the town is, if it's 500 or 5000 people.
Join Fetlife and put posts up of everything you want to try.
Get to know your body first. Discover what feels good, like, what kind of touch? Firm, soft, aggressive and so on. Slow and steady, fast paced or a mixture of both. Turn ons turn off.