Hi Sisterhood! So I've been married for 5 years- together for 9 years and we have a 3 yr old child together. We both work very hard however it comes at a cost of always being tired come some 'alone'/intimacy time. I'm trying to make a conscious effort to make more time however would be interested to know what the 'normal' is for other relationships and any tips/tricks to get more in the mood more regularly. Thank you.
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Around once a day. We've been married 18 years and he still bloody turns me on. Last night it was twice! Lol
My husband now works evenings, but usually 4-5 times a week? We have 3 kids and married 13 years.
3 times a week usually
1-2 times a week
Been together for 10, married for 5.
I'm currently pregnant so not a lot cause I definitely don't have the want for it. But prior maybe 1-2 times a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less just depends on work and life in general.
I’m going to say a lot of these replies are once or more a week and I just want to add we do it about once a month and that’s normal too. We’ve been together 25 years. I don’t want you feeling bad seeing all these “couple times a week” thinking you’re not doing enough. Whatever works for you guys is what is enough. If you’re feeling pressured that’s not ok, just remember that.
It ranged from everyday to once a week to once a month
We are no longer together now so I now have a friend with benefits and that's at least twice a week when we are both free
We've been together since I was 14, I am now 52, so 38 years. We both work, he is a shift worker, we have 2 kids 12 and 9. We are intimate 3-4 times a week. We make time for each other and are still very much in love. He is a great lover, very attentive ❤