There’s this guy I hooked up with 3 weeks ago.
We’ve known each other for years. Friends on Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat.
Two days after we had it off, he blocked me on Snapchat and unfollowed me on Instagram. Still Facebook friends. He checks out every Facebook story I post (you can see who views these).
Saw him down town two days ago. He re followed me on Instagram. My Instagram is private so he actually had to request, not just sneakily refollow. He looks at all my stories there too. Still blocked on Snapchat,
Can anyone shed some light for me? I’m confused as heck!
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He’s probably seeing someone else. Knows he’ll get caught if he keeps interacting with you, so has distanced himself everywhere he’d easily be caught by someone else.
Either that, or you encountered f@ckboy
Don’t overthink it. If he was interested you would know and he definitely would not have unfollowed or blocked anything.
Possibly seeing someone else or he was trying to make sure it was just a once off event but couldn't follow through he wants round two.
He’s. A jerk
He's either a player, a weirdo, or an asshole. Write him off, block him if you're uncomfortable with the behaviour.
I had a similar situation with a guy a while ago, he messaged me a few weeks later hoping for a booty call; he said "sorry I blocked you, I just didn't want you to get the wrong idea & go stalky on me" and I said "oh did you block me? I didn't know that, because I didn't bother looking you up" and I think I snapped his poor little ego in half.
He's a douche.
Playing silly games I'd say. Don't even humor that nonsense.
Time for you to just block him and move on.
I’ve had guys do this before. They are holding on to you just incase what they have with someone else goes south then they can still pop back up and ask for sex. They make you feel crazy and used.
Move on, block him and don’t look back. You have to show you have self respect, these fukbois live for women being confused
Sure. *shines the light on unfriend/block*
Don't ever think it. You hooked up, move on
He's playing you. Making you question yourself and wear you down. Unfriend/unfollow him and ignore him.
Ok, so my husband had an infatuation with another woman he met at the gym. He wouldn't give up the 'friendship' (he was 'best friends' with a love heart next to it on Snapchat...) even after knowing how genuinely uncomfortable it made me.
I took the cowards way out and deleted her from his socials via his phone. He noticed and re added her.
I am a loser... he is still friends with her. However she moved interstate, so I know he's not following through with anything and it was a couple of years ago and things seem to have fizzled out.
(Oh, and the Cherry on the top - last year while setting up his new laptop, I found dozens and dozens of photos of this woman he labelled 'stolen from facebook'. Creepy. Such a long story for another day behind all this, but it was vindicating to see he had been gaslighting me.)
Block and move on. He’s not worth your time!