Ladies ! I have never experienced an orgasm with another person. Ever! I can only do for myself. Does this happen to anyone else? Anyone else overcome this?
Anyone else can’t orgasm through sex, only external stimulation?
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Yeah I can but not all the time and very rarely. A vibrator purchase was a good investment for me, and occasionally I’ll use a clit stimulator during sex.
I can orgasm through penetration with my partner but never could with my ex. I think the difference is my partner really makes me ready for it, most men concentrate on the clit for foreplay which is good but if you want to attempt orgasm by penetration the focus needs to be on the labia, vagina, inner thighs. With my partner it is best if he is on top but not missionary, he is keeping his upper body upright and I lift my pelvis up and wrap my legs around him. He goes slow. If it looks like I'm not going to cum before he finishes he will rub my clit while he's driving me and that is amazing.
I can’t from penetration. We use toys. My favourite is a wevibe pivot because it gets me there through clit vibrations but hubby is inside me. Or he lays on his back, I reverse cowgirl then lay down with him still inside and then I can comfortably use a vibrator on my clit
We have been using a vibrator during sex for years. Its the only way I can orgasm during intercourse too.
Yes me. Even by myself I can only do it with a satisfyer pro toy so you'd think if u can orgasm with that then use it in the bedroom with a partner and I'll get there but nope. Its some psychological thing. I'm very aware of my moans and I just dont think i can relax enough. Even though I was married for 12 years. It's not the man either I've had plenty of partners who try really hard but it never works ever and im 35. I've just accepted it now.
I didn't until I was 38. A toy helped and a very giving partner haha
I've found I can with certain positions and a guy with a big dick who knows how to use it. Very rarely do I get any enjoyment out of sex with a guy with a small dick.
I love my sex toys though, check out vush.com.au
They have some great solo toys.
Its not uncommon to need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. It just needs to be included in your sexy time
I have one of those small vacuum suction clit vibrators and we use that during sex otherwise I can't orgasm from penetration