I’ve been In my relationship for nearing 10 years and over this time I’m really lost my self confidence and self worth. I honestly can’t be sure if it’s me or him that broken it down, he partly blames himself but I also blame myself so maybe it’s both of us. Prior to this relationship I was a very happy confident person, I don’t know where that person went.
We’ve recent had some hick ups in our relationship, We are working together on strengthening our relationship and building it back up but I’m also wanting to do some self work to help myself feel like me again.
So here I am asking how people who have lost themselves in their relationship found themselves again, what did you do to help build yourself back up and regain confidence in yourself, your relationship and your life in general?
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I'm the same although it hasn't been a long relationship at all. Almost 2 yrs. But i find its from lack of connection through communication. He doesnt listen to me and things we have spoken about so many times he will ask again if i have done thos or that in my life and i just look at him wondering why he doesnt listen and retain. Its like nothing talked about is remembered but friendships hes all good very connected. Frustrating. Makes me feel worthless unimportant not validated in anyway or heard. Common intetests lack to and relationship is put past not first. Sucks.
At least your working together on it but unsure how you can feel better yourself. Make new friends? I dont know.... i'm lost too :/