Hello sisterhood, I recently found a call and a text on my partners phone that he had sent at midnight to one of his (girl) friends saying “still hot and sexy. Just saying.” I’m very upset by this message and I’m just wanting some feedback in regards to the intention he may have behind it. I had also previously found that he had been searching up other women profiles on social media. Please help.
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He’s testing the waters with other women. If one bites then he is likely to pursue it. He may also be looking to receive compliments back (and probably to cheat).
My ex was receiving naked images from one of his friends, he never asked her to stop, he told her she was sexy and got him excited. Nothing more happened, but i ended the relationship regardless.
Don’t even ask for an explanation, get yourself out or kick him to the curb. Either way, this relationshi should be dead now. Sending you love sweety
Was the call answered? How long was it? The message doesn't sound good at all but I think I would need something else to go with it before I ran for the hills.
Who cares if the call was answered. He is being inappropriate, he is looking up other women and looking at this womans pictures…he is trash and poster needs to be respected. This man is gross and she deserves better.
Well an answered call would suggest something could be going on with that text message. To be really honest, that message is something I could have sent myself to an old friend, especially one that was being down about themselves. Just the other day I dropped food off to my friend who has covid and the box said "hot & fresh" I wrote "Karen is" above it. That's why I would need something else to go with it.
So you’d be completely fine with your partner looking at images of other women and commenting on their apperance? Not just random women on the internet, but women he knows?
You made a joke, he was clearly not making a joke. A man should never speak to another woman that way when he has a partner (same as a woman shouldn’t to a man) if you’re single or like you, a woman cheering up a female friend who you have no sexual interest in then it is ok, as it’s a joke.
OP would not be upset if her partner made a joke to a male friend like this
He is not just looking at pictures. He is saying inappropriate things to another woman when he is in a relationship! He should have more respect for his relationship with you and shut this crap down, not start it. Mine started with the messages every time and had cheated on me multiple times before I found out. My problem was I let him know too early when I found the smallest thing so then he became sneakier. If you haven't told him you saw it I would do a little more digging.
Girl, if you're honest with yourself, you know what his intentions are...
When was the last time you felt compelled to tell a male friend of yours that he was still hot and sexy?
How often do you look up men's social media profiles?
What a disrespectful pig. He is fishing to see who takes the bite, to set up an affair if he hasn’t already. Don’t trust him one bit. He will
Lie about it all anyway so snoop until you get more info then busy his ass. Don’t be naive to anything and be alert to everything. Check to see if he sleeps with his phone, changes passwords etc then you know he’s def up to no good.
He's waiting for her to jump on his cock, let's face it . Then down the track he can say how it was all her fault bcoz she came onto him. This is almost predictable pig - man behaviour.
That is so grotty. I'd wan't to shove his phone up the eye of his cock but would settle for telling him to fuck off.
It's not innocent, do not be fooled by this grub.