I have joined Bumble and as much as I'm enjoying it, I hate having to make the first move! 😂 It's so hard to come up with that first message and have it not be "Hey, how are you?" or anything too cringy! Can some ladies out there share what they say in their first message? Whether it be funny, cute, serious.... Whatever! Thanks!!
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Often I just shoot Hi and let them start the real convo. Just make sure it doesn’t go into the lame how are you back and forth, get onto a real topic in the very next sentence.
Hi, I’ve successfully used Bumble to meet a lovely man (3 months together now) I asked him about something in his profile- maybe his quirky pictures. Don’t worry too much about it, just use it as an introduction because remember that is may not flow, so don’t overthink it :)