Argh I'm with a liar! But is he a cheat too????
I met my partner many years ago when we were just FWB. He had just broken up with his wife and was playing the field at the time which I was aware of and didn't mind one bit....
Anyway, at the time, he said we'd be friends forever but when it all got too much, he just waltzed out and I didn't hear from him for a year or so. He moved away and I got on with my life.
He connected again via socials and we chatted for nearly a year while he had a gf at the time. They broke up and a few months later he hit me with the big question. Move in with me... I did because I always loved him and he knew that.
However, an online relationship has come to light in the meantime that he had with a mutual friend he grew up with PRIOR to me. She's interstate but it was so serious that there was talk of her moving in with him too during that year. She's also married and was the whole time. Keeping in mind he also had a girlfriend at this point....
Yeah well I found out they still talk! Like old friends would I guess. However he lied to me about the nature of their previous relationship thinking I didn't know or was aware of the situation. He lied about numerous things.
Now would that concern anybody else considering the history of the guy??? They never did "hook up" and it was purely online only from what little information he gave me and what I can gather but does that mean it's over???? Or can one assume he's doing to me exactly what he's done to his last ex who, I might add, was totally broken hearted by his online misdemeanours. He was madly in love with online gf and her with him, so much so that she was going to leave her husband and her family! What would a fellow girl do here???
He's a liar but is he a cheat???
He's a liar but is he a cheat???
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I think I would be really wary either way, he is just going from girl to girl. I wouldn't hang around and wait for the inevitable. You are probably already telling yourself this but you shouldn't have moved in with him.
He's a liar but is he a cheat?
That's your question, right?
So let me answer your question with another question - isn't being a liar bad enough?
I’d leave! There is no way I’d stay with this guy. Love isn’t enough.
He can’t be trusted, at all. He shouldn’t be trusted at all.
He has never earned your trust and he’s going to emotionally beat you down until you can’t recognise yourself.
You don’t mean much to him, sadly. He will replace you as soon as you leave (he has proven he’s already working on replacements) but that’s a price I’d be prepared to pay for my self respect and sanity.
Most likely. It’s the disrespect. They’re showing they have it for you and the relationship with you. How far does it go? Far enough that you can’t trust them
This is all too complicated, do your self a favour and just get rid of him. Sounds like he just wants a roof over his head and does what he wants. These women are just a roof and a roo! The guy is obviously a cheating scumbag, go find someone who respects you and women. Find a decent guy that you don’t have to question. Once that doesn’t lie or use you for a roof!
Kick his ass out. He is a liar and cheat. It’s obvious.
Does it really matter mate?
The dude has zero fucking morals. If that doesn't align with yours you're just pushing shit uphill. Throw him in the bin.
I wonder how many women he asked to move in with him, what a rash and terrible decision, really hope kids aren't involved in this.
You talked to him whilst he had a gf, so what made you think he wouldnt do it to you? You lose them how you get them.
Yes he is cheating!!! He is emotionally cheating on you and for me that is worse as there are feelings of love. He loves her.
He was doing it with you on his previous girlfriend, so yes, it is safe to say he is now doing it to you.
If this were being done to me, I would leave. You deserve someone that loves you and only you. He gave up your friendship for a year, so really how important were you to him
Well he was happy to have you as a long term booty call, people like this don't stop when thr booty call are now labeled . I would suggest he has a pattern of having his cake and eating it too. You are now the disposable element as you are probably also doing his washing and cooking so not so sexy and he doesn't have to chase.