I had a positive RAT test a week ago and my husband has been 'looking' after me. He has been giving me vitamins and saying they are a multivitamin and I've just found empty packets of horny goat weed for her. I honestly feel so disgusted. The horny goat week worked and I've been horny all week even though I've been exhausted and sick. I don't even know what to do i feel violated.
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That is disgusting. So deviant. I would be out, there’s no care or respect, you’re actually in danger having him in your house.
Omg that is disgusting! If my husband did that, I would have him charged and he would be out on his ass. What a sicko!
Please ring 1800 respect and speak with them. This is abuse and who knows what he will do next. This is quite sickening.
Omg, this is so wrong, not on at all, why on earth would he think this is ok 🥺
Run. Just run. This “man” is not a respectful human. This is assault. Sounds dramatic but it is.
This is the lowest of low. You poor girl. What kind of person would even do such a thing. He is twisted!
They are energy tablets lol. I think this is a troll post.
Actually just googled and it can be used to help a number of things, one of them BRONCHITIS. It's herbal medicine.
This is my post and my issue is with him lying about what he is giving me and giving me it under false pretenses. He has suggested me taking it to increase libido in the past and I have said no. He has no right to give me something and lie about what it is regardless of what it maybe can do.
True but why wouldn't you look at the box? I would never let anyone give me anything like that without reading and seeing what it is. It is good for you when you're sick though, however if you feel violated then leave.
He was passing me the tablet everyday with panadol and when I asked he said it was a multivitamin to make me feel better. I felt better today and found the empty pill cases while I was cleaning so I confronted him. He had the box hidden in his car while i was sick
What was his reaction when you confronted him?
To hide the box and do this is absolutely. Not ok. Hiding the box proves that he knew it was wrong but still went ahead and did it and hid the evidence.
This is 100% the point here. He lied. He is the one person in the world you should be able to trust, and he absolutely lied to your face. And he tricked you into something you've said no to in the past, so he fucking KNEW you were against it.
I'd be going off my head at him if it was my partner, and I'd seriously consider chucking him out, even if it's just a few weeks while he learns his lesson.
100% this in my eyes is in the same category as date rape drugs. Doing anything to anyone without their knowledge or consent is disgusting no matter what it is.
I'm so sorry this has happened and you have every right to feel angry, disgusted and violated. What was his reaction when he was caught out???
It scares me to think if he can do this would he also secretly give you stuff to make you sick?
What an ass to take advantage while you were sick and he was suppose to be CARING for you, instead he could only think of his dick.
Imagine you went to the hospital for your bronchitis and the doctor gave you what he said was an antibiotic but he actually gave you estrogen pills because he had some kind of hidden agenda.
You'd want that doctor to face the fullest extent of the law, wouldn't you?
Now ask yourself why your husband should get away with doing something like this!
He took advantage of your vulnerability and he tricked you into taking sexual enhancers - that really highlights his intent and how absolutely predatory his behaviour is.
The fact he's willing to cross that line also makes me worry for your safety, I mean, he could have given you anything!
At the very least get something random, maybe viagra, and bide your time. Next time he’s sick bring it to him and Purposefully hide the box and look him in the eye and make him take it and watch him sweat.
I had to laugh but that post how you wrote is funny
I can also see the other side
He lied to you it doesn't matter on what but a lie is a lie
Don't give him any for a long time
Maybe you could do it alone while he is at work & txt him so he knows he is missing out
It's crappy I do hope you start to feel better 👍
That’s absolutely fd up!! Get rid of him asap!