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I don't know how to word this without sounding rude. Firstly, I'd like to start by saying that this is completely coming from me and there is no pressure whatsoever from my partner
I'm looking for some advice....
I'd like to be able to let my partner "finish" in my mouth whilst giving him a headjob. Ideally I'd like to swallow as I have heard this can be an amazing orgasm for a man. But, the thought of it makes me gag and I'm scared that I will actually gag and possibly vomit. Is there anyway around this? Tips, tricks. Anything???
Please help 😊
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Practice and persistence. Listen to his noises and how he moves to see what he likes. There are probably some videos online somewhere that you can watch.
It’s a pretty strong flavour and not a flavour I would say I enjoy, no matter who I’m with and I have 20 years experience. Don’t be afraid of gagging. It happens sometimes, just switch angles/go less deep and use your hand at the base.
I also find switching between mouth and hand means I can tolerate more.
You don’t have to swallow it all. I’d have a drink ready for afterwards.
It's like swallowing a big spoonful of salt mixed with a bit of goats milk to make a slurry. If you want him to finish in your mouth you can still spit it out after, it honestly makes no difference to the orgasm it's all finished at that point. It's just a weird fetish some guys have thanks to porn.
I've been giving regular bjs to my husband since the 90s and I usually just spit it afterwards, he doesn't care or even notice usually because he's in his own little post orgasm bliss bubble.
However here are a few little tips from me,
Start by just letting him finish in your mouth a couple of times, but have tissues or a towel within reaching distance to discreetly spit it out, also a drink is handy!
Maybe try having a couple of alcohol drinks before swallowing, just for relaxation purposes and my biggest tip would be to make sure he doesn't have a week's worth built up or it will be too much to swallow! No more than a day and you should be fine. Also my preference is to swallow frequently while he is ejaculating, rather than having the full lot in my mouth and doing a big gulp at the end. When he's coming I concentrate on relaxing the back of my throat and just doing lots of short quick swallow. Probably best to have your head tilted back (ie, be on your knees) rather than over him (like if he was laying on a bed and you had your head over his groin area) so that gravity can do its thing.
As written above you can either suck the head and wank the shaft with your hand or place the head and the back of your tongue down towards your throat and it should just shoot right down there.
Helps if he is hydrated too, otherwise it can be a bit claggy and hard to swallow. Pineapple juice is meant to make it taste sweeter, but I'm not sure if that's true, however it couldn't hurt to get him to start drinking bulk loads of it😄😄
Most of all have fun, relax and enjoy yourself and make sure he returns the favour😉
This response is absolutely amazing and very helpful. Thankyou very much xo
Lol just don't do it , it is pretty gross to swallow it. Or just spit. I bet he wouldn't take your period blood in his mouth so readily .
It may be gross to you but some women like it. I personally love it and wouldn't compare it to period blood at all.
Oh give me a break, any woman who loves a cum breakfast is lying. It's done for purely one thing only ... to make him happy. Bullshitter right there ^^ . He loves it and you're used to it now for his enjoyment.
I'm not the OP of this comment but WOW! You really need to check yourself, its astonishing that you feel you can speak on behalf of all women! Do you also think women lie about enjoying anal sex and only do it for the man's enjoyment? Or bdsm? Or literally any form of kink??
Just because you don't enjoy it does not mean other people can't! It may be a foreign idea to you but some women genuinely do enjoy sex and blow jobs and getting messy.
Go and enjoy your vanilla sex
I'm guessing you're one of those people who orders a mild butter chicken and thinks it's exotic if you think women don't like cum 🙄 just because it's not something you enjoy doesn't mean others don't enjoy it.
I’m also not the original poster but that’s absolutely not true. I personally love it!! Keep in mind when commenting that Everyone has different sexual desires.
I worry about what sort of sheltered life you've lived if you think that all women don't enjoy swallowing cum.
This post made me gag with the imagery hahha. I would love to be able to do this, but i have sensory issues that make this impossible for me.
Good luck!!
I’ve been doing this for my husband for 15 years now, he doesn’t get deep throat as I can’t do it without gagging and he doesn’t want me to gag as he feels bad.
As for finishing, I have a small mouth and so my jaw gets tired really fast so I definitely have to mix hand with mouth and when he finishes, if I’ve managed it by mouth I just keep something close by to spit into.
If I swallow it’s cause I’ve used caramel topping to assist in the job.
Use a little topping and mix it up a bit
I have found over the years talking with friends, a lot just don't do. They don't like giving it. But digging deeper into the conversation. I feel they are only doing it cause it is what their husband wants/insists. And it should not be that way.
You need to be comfortable performing otherwise you are not going to enjoy the experience.
Me personally, I like giving my partner a BJ. I take the enjoyment out of satisfying my partner. Sex in any form is a beautiful between two people. And you both should be happy and comfortable to enjoy each other.
I strongly suggest you hold the base of his penis and take control.
There are many mouth movements you can perform to get the end result. Pretend his tip is a lolly pop. And then entirely up to you if you swallow or spit. He will be to caught up in the moment to care.
After reading this question the other day, I asked him are his orgasms different. He said there is a slight difference, He replied vaginal sex is more natural so does feel better.
But the bottom line is he gets off
To which makes me happy
And he does returns the favour 😉