**EDIT** a lot of girls are questioning the pic I sent to him.. it wasn’t actually of my friend, it was of me on holiday. We just didn’t realise at the time that she was all the way up in the background. The pic was deleted once we’d zoomed in and seen that. Also I deleted both out of his app immediately! They’re definitely not on there anymore.
A couple of nights ago I snooped through my fiancés phone and found two photos of my best friend in a secret photo app. One was taken at the beach when she was in her bikini and she obviously didn’t know it was being taken. The other was a photo I’d sent to him previously and told him to delete as it was a bit revealing. Obviously I know why these photos were saved in an app like that….
I already have self esteem issues since gaining quite a lot of weight while being with him, and have always had trust issues so this has really hit me hard. I’m so heartbroken right now and can’t believe he would do this to me. But at the same time I don’t know if this is a stupid male thing to do, or am I right in feeling like he’s a massive creep and I should run for the hills?
I honestly thought he was my soulmate and that we could get through everything… but I can’t see myself being able to get over this. I’m so lost, I’ve told him it’s over but he’s begging me not to end things and says he knows how stupid he’s been. To make things even worse we have also recently started trying for a baby, I don’t know if I’m pregnant yet though as it’s too early to come up on a test.
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Nah not mere male, don’t insult men that way. That’s gross and yeah, creepy, and you and your friend both deserve to be treated better. He’s caught that’s all, it wasn’t stupid of him, he’s only seeing it selfishly. Take all those warnings for what they are.
The fact you felt the need yo snoop in the first place says it all. For some deep seated reason, you had to look, there is a lot of distrust and im thinking your gut feeling is why you snooped. Most of the time, thay gut feeling is right.
Creepsville. You dodged a bullet, throw that asshole back.
No way would my husband do this. Especially not when engaged which is honestly the peak of the lovey Dovey stage.
If you thought he was your soul mate why were you snooping? Cut and run, he's trash!
If he was a single man saving pics of random OnlyFans chicks, I'd say mere male.
An engaged man saving titty pics of your best friend is a fking disgrace, 100% creepster, 100% future cheater material.
Sorry lovely, but you already know the answer here.
It's not about you gaining weight, it's about him having absolute disrespect for you and your relationship.
Yeah, that's not ok. Not only has he completely betrayed you, I'd feel sick to my stomach if I found out my friends fiance had pics of me saved on their phone, so he has completely violated your friend as well.
Run, and don't look back. The fact that you felt the need to snoop says enough for me, but then to find something so personal I would nor could ever trust my partner around any females in my life ever again. I'd be upset if it was random chicks on the internet - but someone we knew? Yeah that's a no from me babe, you deserve the world babe!
Good luck, and stay strong x